The following passage which I came across was what inspired me to write my post A Note to Candy Girl in March. For no reason in particular I decided to post it here--it is not my story nor my writing.
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He is holding onto her because she is determined and she offers a lot of movement in his life. In this regard he is a person who likes to be led because it takes him out of his quite stagnant depressive frame of mind that he often prolapses into when not moved or inspired.
She is good at teasing--teasing him to follow. Sexual invites then run and let him chase type. She has him hooked quite strongly there and it is the major thing that holds them together.
There are other minor things, such as mutual social frames and by the looks of it, the parents seem pleased.
He is aware that she uses the teasing to hold him but he cannot help it and feels that she is a bit too bossy. He is a bit like a grumpy child not being able to break loose of a big sister's bond because she has candy and he wants it.
Their issue seems to be money. They do not agree on how to spend it. Her being too bossy and him being flirty with others. Besides the 'teaser bond', it is quite a shallow relationship.
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He is holding onto her because she is determined and she offers a lot of movement in his life. In this regard he is a person who likes to be led because it takes him out of his quite stagnant depressive frame of mind that he often prolapses into when not moved or inspired.
She is good at teasing--teasing him to follow. Sexual invites then run and let him chase type. She has him hooked quite strongly there and it is the major thing that holds them together.
There are other minor things, such as mutual social frames and by the looks of it, the parents seem pleased.
He is aware that she uses the teasing to hold him but he cannot help it and feels that she is a bit too bossy. He is a bit like a grumpy child not being able to break loose of a big sister's bond because she has candy and he wants it.
Their issue seems to be money. They do not agree on how to spend it. Her being too bossy and him being flirty with others. Besides the 'teaser bond', it is quite a shallow relationship.
Too much "candy" gives a person rotten "teeth".
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